How do you define Patriot? Donald Trump brought up the question in both words and behavior. Is it hugging the flag?

Conservative Political Action Conference (CPAC) February 29, 2020
Does this picture make Trump a patriot? The Oxford dictionary definition is “a person who vigorously supports their country and is prepared to defend it against enemies or detractors.” He is conveying that he loves the flag and what it stands for.
Merriam-Webster definition is “a person who loves his or her country and supports its authority and interests”
The United States creates a missile system and titles it the “Patriot System” that is meant to defend the country.
What about those of us that love the country and attack its laws and regulations that we see as harmful? Are we too patriots?